Rome Dos and Don’ts
What to wear
Rome is casual. Italians wear jeans, but slim and neat—not baggy or ripped. A simple shirt, modest dress, or light sweater works everywhere. For churches (including St. Peter’s Basilica, which is strict), cover your shoulders and knees. Sleeveless tops are blocked; priests at the door will turn you away. Women: a long scarf, a light cardigan or a shawl over your shoulders works. Men: a shirt, not sleeveless. Footwear: closed-toe shoes or sneakers. The cobblestones are unforgiving; flip-flops and sandals are fine for wandering but not ideal for 10,000 steps. Layers matter. Even in summer, evening drops 10 degrees. A light layer for sunset.
Water and food
The nasoni—public drinking fountains—are everywhere in Rome and the water is free and cold. They’re called nasoni ("big noses") because of the nose-like spout. Locals drink from them constantly. The water is potable (drinkable) and often colder than bottled water. Bring a reusable bottle and refill at nasoni. Rome’s classic dishes: carbonara (guanciale, pecorino, eggs, pepper—no cream), cacio e pepe (pecorino and black pepper), amatriciana (tomato, guanciale, pecorino). A supplì is a fried croquette stuffed with rice and ragù; buy them at a alimentari (corner market) for pocket change. Dinner starts at 8 p.m. (early) or 8:30–9 p.m. (normal). Restaurants won’t serve dinner at 6 p.m.; they open at 7:30 p.m., and the real crowd arrives after 9 p.m.
The fines and the unwritten rules
Sitting on the Spanish Steps is illegal and draws a real fine. It’s enforced. Jumping in fountains or bathing is also fined. Walking on the Spanish Steps is fine; sitting is not. Don’t eat on the steps either. Picking flowers in public parks is illegal. Drinking alcohol on the street after midnight is frowned upon. Taxis: don’t hail them on the street; queue at the official taxi ranks (at the Colosseum, Trevi, major piazzas, train stations). A taxi rank has an official sign. Hailing from the street sometimes works, but ranking is the Roman way. The metro is cheap, but the 64 bus and the metro at peak hours are notorious for pickpockets. Keep your bag zipped and your phone in an inside pocket.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to cover up in churches?
Yes, especially St. Peter’s. Shoulders and knees must be covered. Sleeveless shirts, short shorts, or midriffs are blocked. A scarf over your shoulders works; a cardigan or shawl also works. Men should wear a shirt, not sleeveless. Even small churches enforce this. It’s a respect-the-space rule, not arbitrary.
Is the nasone water safe to drink?
Yes. The nasoni (public fountains) have drinkable, cold water. Locals drink from them constantly. It’s often colder and fresher than bottled water. Carry a reusable bottle and refill at nasoni throughout the day. It’s free, safe and smart.
When should I eat dinner?
8 p.m. is early; 8:30–9 p.m. is normal; 9:30 p.m. is late. Restaurants open at 7:30 p.m. but don’t fill until after 9 p.m. If you eat at 6:30 p.m., you’ll be alone; at 9 p.m., you’ll eat with Romans. Adjust your internal clock. Italians eat late because they have a two-hour lunch and an afternoon siesta culture (fading, but still real).